But I know from whence candidate
Carter spoke. For I, too, have known lust in my heart. Not of the usual carnal
and erotic sort (necessarily). More of the culinary and epicurean kind, I
suppose.
Nor would it be any blond
bombshell—some svelte and slender feminine trifle—who would lure we away from
my Elizabeth (who is quite blond and svelte and slender and feminine enough for
me to handle, certainly; though hardly a trifle).
Rather, it would be a woman about
eight inches taller than I am. And about 42 years older. And who is no trifle,
either (though, no doubt, she made her share of them in the course of her life,
I’m sure).
I am referring, of course, to my
heart’s mistress, Julia Child. The woman who, if truth be told, taught me how
to cook:
You see, as a teenager with
basically no social life, on Saturday evenings, I started watching The French Chef on Channel 2 —PBS today; we used to call it
“Educational TV”. I don’t know what it was about her—do we ever with love?—but
something clicked, and I was smitten, and soon was doing the family’s grocery
shopping, and a lot of the cooking, which is where it’s been since.
(When I watch reruns of the old French Chef episodes today—which I do,
on a regular basis—I am always amazed at certain little things—measuring a
teaspoon of salt in the palm of the hand; patting mushrooms dry with a paper
towel before sauteing them; the certain way to chop an onion—that came right
from Julia. I got so much of the technique of how to carry oneself in the
kitchen; how to plan out the cooking of a meal; how to pick up a dropped
chicken off the floor—directly from her.)
So, when I was at Harvard between
1978 and 1981, and I discovered that her home at 103 Irving Street in Cambridge
was just around the corner from the Divinity School, and I just happened to
have an hour at lunchtime between classes, I decided to take a stroll more days
than not—in the hopes that, one day, the esteemed Mrs. Child would be out in
her garden, or bringing in groceries from her car, or something, and would see
me, and take pity on this starving divinity student (I was much thinner back then) and invite me in for lunch, or tea, or whatever.
Well, it never happened. I never got
invited in for coffee. I never even met Julia Child. Or saw her in person. Or
heard her speak. Or corresponded with her. Or sent her an email. Or “liked” her
on Facebook. (Well, maybe I did do that. But she was dead by then.)
But even though the paths of our
lives never crossed, she bequeathed much to me (and to so many others) in the
92 years of her life. There are always valuable lessons to learn in life, and
Julia taught us all quite a few of them.
She was born in Pasadena, California
on August 15, 1912—we just celebrated the 100th anniversary of her
birth this past summer. Her father, John McWilliams, was a conservative
Republican businessman; her mother, the former Julia Weston, was from an old
Massachusetts family (after whom the town of Weston was named), whose father
had served as Lieutenant Governor of the
Commonwealth, who had made his money in the paper industry.
Julia graduated from Smith College
in 1934, an unexceptional student, but well liked by all her knew her, and a
center of social life on campus. She had majored in English, so after
graduation, she made her way to New York, where she tried her hand (with limited
success) as a copywriter for an advertising firm. When war came, she tried to
enlist in the WACs, then in the WAVES, but was told each time that she was too
tall—six feet, two inches tall, to be precise. So, she joined the Office of
Strategic Services, the OSS—the precursor of the CIA instead. While she
(probably) was not a spy, her work with the OSS was of an extremely sensitive
nature, and she was granted Top Secret security clearance. In 1944, she was
posted to Ceylon (Sri Lanka today), and there she met Paul Child, whom she
would marry in 1946.
After graduating from cooking school, Julia joined
a Parisian cooking club, Les Cercle des Gourmettes, where she met Simone Beck and Louise Bertholette,
who were working on a French cookbook for Americans. At Beck’s suggestion,
Child joined them in their endeavor, in order to increase the book’s appeal to
“real Americans”.
For the next ten years, the trio would work together on
their cookbook. The Childs were transferred—first to Marseille, then to Norway,
then to Germany, finally back to the United States—and all the while, the “Trois
Gourmandes” as they called themselves, would correspond with each other, revise
recipes, search for a publisher, and hope for the best. Houghton Mifflin in
Boston was interested; but when the trio delivered a manuscript that ran to
nearly a thousand pages and covered only sauces and soups, it was back to the
drawing board. A smaller, revised version then was offered, which Houghton
Mifflin also rejected as being “too encyclopedic”, too expensive to produce,
too involved and complicated for the typical American housewife.
Crestfallen, Child thought that an entire decade of her
life had been wasted. But then, at the insistence of her friend Avis DeVoto,
she submitted the manuscript to Alfred A. Knopf, whose chief editor was known as something of a
Francophile and amateur cook. Eventually, the manuscript (still with its
original title of French Recipes for American Cooks) made its way to
Judith Jones, an editor for the company’s European division, who had been the
one who rescued The Diary of Anne Frank from the rejected pile. Jones
took the huge, onionskin manuscript home and began to cook from it. Randomly,
she chose a recipe for Boeuf Bourginon, and fell in love.
The title was changed to Mastering the Art of French
Cooking; the work was published by Knopf in 1961; and, as they say, the
rest is history.
“This is a book for the servantless American cook,” the
forward to the original edition begins, “who can be unconcerned on occasion
with budgets, waistlines, times schedules, children’s meals, the
parent-chauffeur- den mother syndrome, or anything else which might interfere
with the enjoyment of producing something wonderful to eat.”
It changed the way Americans thought about food. As once
recent commentator has put it, “It was Julia Child—not single-handedly, but
close—who started the public conversation about cooking in America that has
shaped our cuisine and culture ever since.”
A few months after Mastering the Art of French Cooking
was published, Julia appeared on a
book review program on WGBH Channel 2 in Boston called I’ve Been Reading. Armed
with a hot plate, whisk, and pan, she proceeded to make an omelet on live
television! Viewers were hooked; dozens wrote in, asking to see more of her.
Russ Morash from Channel 2 asked her to tape three pilot cooking shows, and
they were instant hits. America’s first celebrity cook was born. The French
Chef debuted in February of 1963, and would run for over ten years (and
forever in reruns).
After that, there would be a dozen more cookbooks—five
more television series (the final one, with Jacques Pepin, filmed when she was
85 years old), Emmy awards, honors and accolades, a Presidential Medal of
Freedom, a French Legion of Honor. Her kitchen from 103 Irving Street in
Cambridge was even placed in the Museum of National History at the Smithsonian
Institution.
When she died in 2004, just two days
short of her 92nd birthday, the New
York Times called her “French Chef for Jello-o Nation”; in a cover story, Time magazine had called her “Our Lady
of the Ladle”.
She taught some of us how to cook.
But what were some of the deeper lessons she taught us?
Julia Child taught us to follow our passion. “Find something
you’re passionate about and become
tremendously interested in it,” she said. Find your calling—and stick with
it—become better at it than anyone you know. And the world will respond.
She taught us that we’re never too old to learn something
new—or to do something new. In a world which worships youth, she was living
proof that sometimes those who bloom latest bloom most beautifully. She was 39
years old before she had even started to cook; 50 years old when Mastering the Art of French Cooking was
finally published; 52 years old when she made her television debut. Yet, she
rose to the top of her field in all of these endeavors.
She taught us to cultivate enthusiasm for life, for whatever
we’re doing in life, right now. While observing her cooking instructor, the
renowned Chef, Max Bugnard, in Paris in the 1950s, she had a revelation: He
cooked everything with utmost zeal
and enthusiasm. “It was a remarkable lesson,” she wrote. “No dish, not even a
humble scrambled egg, was too much trouble for him. I was delighted by his
enthusiasm and thoughtfulness. And I began to internalize it.”
Julia taught us to take our time and pay attention. To those who do not cook, the
recipes in Mastering the Art of French
Cooking can seem so involved and complicated. Yet, on closer reading, they
are as rational and well-thought out as can be. They take things step by step
by step. But they can’t be rushed, and they have to be read, and then carried
through, one step at a time. You have to engage with them, every step of the
way. There are no cheap and easy short cuts. But the result will usually be
worth the toil.
In cooking and in life, Julia
teaches us to slow down, and pay attention to what we’re doing. And if we do, then
even the most unremarkable among us can do some truly remarkable things.
Julia’s life story testifies that
even the smallest things can have great consequences. The class taken on a
whim. The hobby attempted. The meal shared. All things in our lives can have
profound consequences, and can lead us to an exciting new stage of our journey.
“If you’re afraid of butter, use
cream,” she said: Pay attention to the quality of those things that go into our
lives. Junk in—junk out. Or, conversely, time and patience and care and joy can
yield truly wonderful creations. Not just in cooking, but in living itself.
“How can a nation be called great if
its bread tastes like Kleenex?” she once asked. She warned us not to constantly
trade convenience for quality.
“When it’s all so beautifully
arranged on a plate, then you know that someone’s fingers has been all over it,”
she said. Banish the pursuit of the (unattainable) “perfect” for the pursuit of
that which is good and beautiful and true and achievable—if we dare. And
realize that the good and beautiful, in life and in cooking, will always have
our hand prints all over it.
Julia Child once wrote that “Dining
with one’s friends and beloved family is certainly one of life’s primal and
most profound delights, one that is both soul-satisfying and eternal.”
She taught us how to make the
eternal real and taught us to taste deeply both the sweet and savory essence of
life. She was the consummate anti-elitist, always 100% herself. She loved haute
cuisine and fine wines, yes. But she also loved Pepperidge Farm goldfish, and
hot dogs at Fenway, and French fries from McDonald’s (though not the
hamburgers; those, she thought, were garbage).
She loathed organized religion. But
she believed in celebrating life. And here on the paths of everyday, perhaps
that is even more important. She knew that in the sharing of this communion of
being with one another, we share a feast of life with one another so simple,
yet so profound, something earthly yet eternal, an opening of our souls and
spirits to the glories of life.